I was seeing my gf for per year and four months

I was seeing my gf for per year and four months

She would like to starting a family today, but we don’t need to make a choice based on the lady biological schedule

We got together easily, at a tumultuous times. Six months early in the day, I’d remaining an abusive partnership, and my ex, who would not go well, was in our everyday life for some time. Which has had all died down, and I also have-been truly taking pleasure in learning my sweetheart and encounter their family.

The issue is that the woman is 38 yrs old and desires starting a family group today. Im 34 and never certain. She’s got constantly managed to get completely obvious that she desires to bring girls and boys. I, but have always been unsure of just how children would happen personally, a gay lady who for many years wasn’t in a healthier lasting union. I’d, to some extent, made tranquility with not-being a parent, and receiving into this union might a little bit of an Oh, it is now a possibility minute.

It feels as though a big decision, completely life-altering, plus one We don’t would you like to hurry. But I’m sure I’m an incredibly indecisive person. We tend to weighing my options and go over all of them over and over.